It was one of those
blazing Indian summers when the entire country seemed to be on the move. Trains
were packed to the brim. Reservations were nearly impossible. Waiting lists ran
into the hundreds.
In those days, there was
no online booking. Everything—from ticketing to waitlists—was handled manually.
If you wanted a seat, you either had influence or incredible luck. Touts
thrived, often in cahoots with some corrupt officials. Travel on a specific date was, in short, a gamble.
Amidst this chaos, I had
to travel urgently to Delhi on official business. Air travel was out of the
question—it was far too expensive and reserved only for top-level bureaucrats.
My office, after pulling a few strings, managed to get me a berth on the onward
journey through the state government quota.
The return, however, was a
different story. My ticket was waitlisted way down the list—far past the point
of hope. Still, I left for Delhi, deciding to worry about the return later.
I was allotted a berth in
a first-class coupe. No one had shown up to share the compartment as the train
began to move. Just then, a middle-aged man hurriedly boarded, his porter
barely managing to get his suitcase inside.
“You were about to miss
the train,” I said, more amused than annoyed. “Lucky you got in by the skin of
your teeth.”
He gave a faint smile.
“True, I was held up in a meeting and had to rush, sir.”
He was short, bald, and
spoke with a quiet deference. The “sir” hinted at someone accustomed to formal
hierarchies. We didn’t talk much that night—both of us were tired and soon
drifted to sleep.
The next morning, over a
modest cup of train coffee, he asked if I was from the Tamil Nadu cadre. I
clarified I wasn’t an IAS officer, just a middle level public sector executive.
At this, he visibly
relaxed. He spoke more freely—about Chennai, about his difficulties finding
North Indian food while traveling, and about the little adjustments that come
with work and life away from home.
I casually mentioned the
trouble I’d had getting a return ticket and showed him my waitlist—number 347.
He glanced at it, nodded, and jotted something into his small notebook.
“Well,” he said with a
quiet smile, “Let’s hope you’re as lucky on the return as you were on the way
here.”
He didn’t offer help. He
didn’t mention who he was. And I didn’t ask.
After finishing my work in
Delhi, I approached our local office for help with my return ticket. Their
response was predictable—holiday rush, zero availability, even the emergency
quota had been rejected.
But around 4 PM, an
assistant came running into my room, breathless.
“Sir! A berth has been
released in your name. And…it wasn’t us. I checked. It came from the Chairman,
Railway Board’s quota.”
I stood still for a
moment, the pieces falling into place.
That quiet, polite man in
the coupe—the one who smiled faintly, spoke gently, and never once revealed his
identity—must have been someone working in the office of the Chairman, Railway
Board. He didn’t say a word, didn’t promise a thing. He simply acted.
I was reminded of a
Sanskrit verse I had once read:
शरदि न वर्षति गर्जति वर्षति वर्षाषु निःस्वनो मेघः |
नीचो वदति न कुरुते वदति न साधुः करोत्येव
||
In autumn, clouds thunder but bring no rain. During the monsoon, they rain silently.
The ordinary man speaks but does not act; the noble one acts without a word.
In a world full of noise,
that gentleman chose silence. In a system clogged with influence and noise, he acted
quietly and effectively.
Sometimes, the greatest
gestures are the ones that are never announced.
A Very nice one, bringing to the fore some basic traits - most people find joy in helping others!
ReplyDeleteI have a pleasant incident to recall here - a hot summer day when we were caught up in a traffic jam, cars facing each other in a gridlock.
As is usual, I got off my car to clear the clog. After a few minutes of such directing, the wheels of the cars started moving quickly and the jam got completely cleared. The drive pulled up my car to where I was a few meters away and we drove home.
On a call later that night a friend of mine thanked me stating I helped him take the intended flight out of the city!
Blessings come to you in strange ways!
True. Action speaks louder than words. A good story
ReplyDeleteChitra
Dheivam manushya roopena (God in the form of a human being).
ReplyDeleteAs the UN Adviser, when I had been to Tonga, it coincided with the 78th birthday celebrations of the King. I was allotted a table in the fifth row. Suddenly, the king gestured towards his assistant and whispered a few words. Lo and behold, the assistant escorted me to the podium, and made me sit there in the table next to him for a six course lunch.
ReplyDeleteWhen the ceremony was about to be over, in his talk to the 150 odd guests, the King warmly described about my role in bringing in the Internet to the island and how that was so important for communication & tourism. He presented me with a copy of the Bible with his signature and royal seal. Quite unexpected. I became an instant celebrity there and was called for 3 local interviews!!
“Let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth:” says the Bible, of course, in the context of giving alms to the needy. But here we see a true noble spirit in the Railway Officer who had helped without any fanfare!
ReplyDeleterightly said! 'The Greatest gestures are the ones that are never announced'..He must have liked you and so helped you without announcing himself. Good story....real one! ...Sandhya
ReplyDeleteVery true. Earlier period, people were modest. It reminds me another true incident - a lady government officer on her return trip from Delhi to Ahmedabad, was accommodated by the present PM and another Congress leader, these two provided the berth. This was published after Mr. Narendra Modi became CM of Gujarat.
ReplyDeleteVery nice story. I am reminded of untold unasked-for kindnesses, big and small, without which my life would have taken a much less pleasant path.
ReplyDeleteIn life, the unexpected kindnesses are like starbursts, illumining an otherwise gray and bleak universe. Thank you for an inspiring parable. Arvind Rajan
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts on your real life experience:
ReplyDeleteWhen in spite of the full knowledge that a smooth return trip would be well nigh impossible, you still responded positively to the call of duty. So could anything else have awaited a man of duty other than what ultimately did! There had to be a providence in the form of a man of action becoming your copassenger during the outbound journey!
A beautiful story of kindness without any expectation in return.
ReplyDeleteThe story reminded me of a very pleasant experience of such an act of kindness from a complete stranger on my journey back from Bombay to Calcutta in December 1963 after attending an interview at the Reserve Bank of India, my first interview after doing masters in Economics.
I was travelling in a second class compartment where I met a young bengali gentleman (I still remember his very unusual name, Samar Prachanda).
As he was preparing his bed for the night, he asked me whether I am carrying a bed. When he found that I am neither having a bed nor any warm clothes, he lent me a pillow, a bedsheet, and a warm wrapper.
I had a very comfortable sleep (unlike my journey from Calcutta to Bombay) because of that unexpected act of kindness from a total stranger. Atin Biswas
Such a sweet story - loved the Sanskrit verse in the end:
ReplyDelete“It is rains that grow flowers - not thunder”.
A nice story of acknowledgement of blessing. All of us must have had our shares of such blessings in our journey. Oftentimes, we consciously do not remember or acknowledge such blessings openly. Lest I do the same mistake, let me narrate one of many blessings I was bestowed with in my life. I had my first posting in Delhi as a rookie executive in a PSU. For almost a year, I had avoided offers of postings outside the then Calcutta, my home town, from other companies on the ground that both my parents were aged, seriously ill and were fully dependent on me. But practicalities forced me to go to Delhi with a hope that someday their transfer policy would help me to reunite with my parents. In those days, even basic telephone facility wasn't available. Snail mails were the only means that kept me in touch with my parents and I was always in anxiety. But within a year's time something pleasant happened. Oneday in office, I met one gentleman for the first time, but I had heard so much about his superlative skill sets in work that I was curious about him. For a few days, I was assigned to assist him and young me was really impressed. Oneday, he just told me if I was interested in going back to Calcutta. I didn't mention to him about my desire or reason behind it. So I was thrilled and considered this suggestion as a lottery ticket. Took no time to affirm. He of course warned me of heavy work load and high degree of diligence , sincerity and integrity required in the new department, which he was going to head. But at that moment, nothing could have deterred me from my affirmation. That's how a six year close official bonding started. It could have been a simple quid pro quo but instead it became a blessing from him. His attitude to work, human relations, pleasant demeanor at the face of crises taught me a lot. It helped me in modifying and/or confirming my traits as a human being and have remained with me throughout. The best part is I didn't even realise when that official relation of six years got converted to my life enriching journey with him even after these 44 years. He became my teacher, true Guru. That gentle benefactor in my life is none other than this story teller KP Sir. My salutations and reverence to you Sir as always.
ReplyDeleteI never knew I am all these. Nevertheless, your comment brought tears in my eyes. Thank you my good friend
DeleteThis story again reiterates the need to be grateful to known and unknown benefactors . Thanks for this story
ReplyDeleteThis real time experience, a memory even after six decades when shared creates happiness which is amplified in abundance and a sense of fulfilment.
ReplyDeleteTrue happiness often lies in the act of giving and equally in receiving the kindness and love from unknown quarters. Beautifully narrated as a story.
Beautiful story. So glad you had this experience!
ReplyDelete— Deepak Raghavan
A truly inspiring story—where challenges weren’t barriers but steppingstones to transformation!
ReplyDeleteNice realtime story sir!! Many times a simple action speak more than a thousand words!! Nice human being and definitely his attitude is worth praising!! Will definitely bring a change in any person associated with him!! Good one!! - Jayanthi
ReplyDeleteA nice anecdote. I liked it.
ReplyDeleteYour real-time story was really touchy!! A simple humble action speaks better than a thousand words. There are people in this flashy world who do not show off either their wealth or position but act very humbly but very difficult to find. Perhaps your story has happened 60 years ago when the world was liveable for good souls. These days being good is no more a positive attitude. World is filled with selfish and cunning go-getters. Good thatvyou still remember the simple help he did 60 years ago. That's very nice of you to remember that soul now!!
ReplyDeleteJayanthi
In the quietude of unsung kindness lies a nobility that needs no trumpet, only the heart to recognize its grace.
ReplyDeleteSuch mercies, veiled in humility, bloom like wildflowers, unnoticed by many, yet divine in their gentle fragrance.
I was so happy to read the comment by Mr Asit on such a person K P Sir, the silent gardener of goodwill, sows seeds of compassion where none look, and walks away with only the joy of giving.
Unabashed, here I am sharing a couple of posts written about 10 years ago on these small mercies and benevolence, requesting the readers here to give their thoughts- would be much obliged and grayeful.
https://adsunsri.wordpress.com/2016/04/02/godsend/
https://adsunsri.wordpress.com/2015/09/09/gratitude/