My great-granddaughter gave me a Polo mint this morning, and it brought back memories of an elderly granduncle who, during my teens, would hand me a small, round white mint candy every time I met him. I had written about him years ago, and the memory felt warm enough to revisit.
I was a schoolboy then. Since my
school was close to home, I came home for lunch every day. One afternoon, as I
stepped in, I found my mother in tears. She asked me to accompany her to my
grandfather’s house a few miles away. When I inquired why she was crying, she
said, “You know Ammanji, your grandfather’s cousin. He passed
away last night, and the cremation is in a few hours. I need to go now, and you
must come with me.”
I agreed. All I really knew about
him was that he constantly chewed raw arecanuts and kept, in his almirah, a
carpenter’s kit, some cobbler’s tools, and an old wooden box. Still, I was
secretly happy at the chance to skip school that day.
I had seen him many times during
my visits to my grandfather’s house, a frail, short man with thick glasses,
dressed in a white upper garment that was neither a vest nor a shirt. He wasn’t
a real cousin of my grandpa, just a distant relative. He had lost his wife
early in life and had no children or close family. My grandfather, comfortably
well-off and living in a sprawling old house full of helpers, had persuaded him
to come and stay there. And though no one quite knew the exact relationship,
everyone called him Ammanji and treated him with dignity and
affection.
He had once been a schoolteacher,
known for his command of English. A voracious reader, he rarely returned from
the local library without a new book. Though reticent by nature, he could fill
a room with laughter when he chose to speak, his comments always laced with
gentle wit.
I suspected he had little income
beyond what he needed for daily necessities and for his beloved arecanut. To be
honest, I never felt particularly drawn to him and even feared him a little;
his features reminded me of a bulldog. Yet he always smiled when our eyes met.
He would hand me round white mint candies, the kind that tasted even sweeter
after a sip of water.
He had a small wall-mounted
almirah of his own. Inside it sat a little wooden box that fascinated all of us
children. He rarely opened it in anyone’s presence, but we knew he peeked into
it twice a day, once in the morning and once in the evening, staring quietly for
a few minutes before locking it again. The key, tied to sacred thread across his
shoulder, was never out of his sight. We boys often speculated and invented
imaginative theories: perhaps it held gold jewellery belonging to his late
wife, or bundles of currency, or, as one mischievous boy suggested, old love
letters.
Once, I mentioned his
strange habit to my uncle, hoping for some revelation. Instead, I received a
sharp rebuke for poking my nose into others’ private matters and was warned to
mend my behaviour.
As I accompanied my mother that
day, memories of the arecanut, the mint candies, and the mysterious box played
in my mind. The atmosphere at my grandfather’s house was heavy with grief. My
grandfather, whom I had always seen as strong and stoic, was in uncontrollable
tears. Many elders and former students of Ammanji had
gathered, praising his teaching and his gentle, virtuous character.
About ten days later, I went with
my mother again for the concluding rituals. The subject of the mysterious box
naturally came up. My grandfather asked one of my uncles to fetch it, and using
the key recovered from Ammanji’s body, he opened it. All of
us, uncles, aunts and cousins, crowded around eagerly.
To everyone’s disappointment, the
box was almost empty. Inside lay only a few coins, a copy of the Bhagavad Gita,
and a faded, postcard-sized black-and-white photograph, turned brown by time.
My grandfather’s eyes grew misty as he picked it up.
“Ammanji and his
wife,” he murmured.

Very heart touching story
ReplyDeleteVery nice story. Ramakrishnan.
ReplyDeleteThis is so touching… it’s beautiful how he cherished his wife even in small, quiet moments.
ReplyDeleteYou have created a story out of nothing to
ReplyDeleteI would have loved to know the secret behind his carpenter and cobbler's tools. Why would an English teacher keep them, safe in his almirah? -Thangam
ReplyDeleteRama Sampath Kumar: A lovely story depicting the life of a man with no real family but fortunate to have an adoptive one , with members who loved and cared for him. Sad take but the interest was there from beginning till end .. certain small gestures which one receives as a youngster one never forgets .. in this case the mint with a hole! Somehow knowing your style could guess what was in the wooden box, I thought only a picture of the wife: but it was of the couple along with a holy book!
ReplyDeleteA touching story indeed! A guessed the secret of the mysterious box though!! Atin Biswas
ReplyDeleteA touching story highlighting the many values our elders ingrained in us. Loved your eye for detail... especially that mint candy tastes sweeter after water. Loved the way you reminisced too.
ReplyDeleteA glimpse into the little boy’s sweet memories!
ReplyDeleteCharmed by this beautiful recount of boyhood memories of a distant granduncle Ammamji that got triggered after the writer received a mint candy from his great granddaughter.
ReplyDeleteOne feels compassionate after going through the endearing descriptions as to how Ammanji, a reticent individual, would offer a round shaped mint candy to the writer, guard the contents of his mysterious wooden box from the gazes of others, his voracious reading habits, his occasional wit and his fondness for arecanut! Particularly touching was the part describing the revelation of the nature of the contents of the mysterious box that was opened after the death of Ammanji.
Touching story. So attached was he to his wife.
ReplyDeleteWe all have those moments in life that we want to cherish forever. But how do we keep those memories alive? From feelings of nostalgia and longing for the past to recognising the impact someone has had on our lives, these unforgettable moments remind us why it's essential to make each moment count.
ReplyDeleteThis enchanting story captures various small incidents, such as a white mint (complete with a hole in the middle ? ) that tastes even sweeter after taking a sip of water, or another memorable part is a mischievous boy's suggestion about old love letters hidden in the box. Each of these experiences showcases unique and captivating storytelling.
The narrative takes us back to the "Ammachis" of our past, if only for a short while, and it is an incredibly gratifying experience. May you continue to inspire our imagination with your stories!
Beautifully conveyed story of enduring love. (JJ)
ReplyDeleteGood story.
ReplyDeleteA nice story.
ReplyDeleteNice story depicting life in homes a few decades ago! My father too, in his later years, would go to the garden, taking a few rolls of the 'mint with a whole', a lot of the young kids awaiting his appearance! They used to call him 'Polo Thatha!
ReplyDeletePrecious memories and sentiments are priceless.
ReplyDeleteChitra
These elders suffered silently the loss of their loved ones....Sandhya
ReplyDeleteA very simple story. I’m certain that you were the boy in the story and wrote it like a river flowing silently. Regards PKR
ReplyDeleteThe story brings Ammanji to life with simple, heartfelt detail.
ReplyDeleteThe final reveal of the box is quietly emotional and beautifully handled.
Overall, it’s a touching memory told with warmth, honesty, and charm.
I am reminded of the ad on Polo,: "You pay for the hole ,the rest is free"
ReplyDeleteAmmanji was holed up free in cousin's house , distributed Polo to kids to remain in their hearts.What a price to pay for being holed up to acquire aplace in unfading memory of kids!
Jagadeesan
Good read.
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