"I didn't give you the gift of life, life gave me the gift of you"
It was a sultry day and there were no visitors to the institution. Some
days there used to be even four or five couples and a few days there would be
none. It used to be boring then with nothing but novels to keep me busy. I do
voluntary work in this child adoption centre out of affection for my mom who
was heading this institution till she passed away a few years back. She was
insistent that I give back to society at least a portion of what I have taken
from it.
This adoption centre is a part of the institution that ran a shelter for orphans and destitute women, a school, vocational training institute comprising of tailoring, laundry, carpentry, a printing press and a small machine shop. It is a home for hundreds of children and women where they were cared for until they were rehabilitated into society.
Many social workers give their time and money to this institution. I chose the adoption centre when I was asked to choose by the head of the organization as I loved children and playing with them. It was only later that I realized one needs to have an abiding interest in children and plenty of patience. I had to minimize my social life and even skip minor family functions. But I always felt happy with this work when I saw my mother’s photo and remember her total dedication and the immense satisfaction she derived when she found safe and secure homes for the children of the centre. The choice of foster parents required utmost care and gathering of information. One cannot afford to make mistakes as the future of the babies is dependent on the right homes.
A young couple, Vanita and Varun, one day dropped in. Both of them were
working in a well-known IT company drawing hefty salaries. She was in her early
thirties and was exceptionally beautiful. Varun, a tall and handsome man made a
good partner. When she expressed her desire to adopt a child, I asked her why
she was doing it while still young, she explained that she was not medically
fit to bear a child,
I kept quiet for some time wondering how even advanced medical knowledge is
unable to cure some maladies and asked,
“You both are working and that too for long hours. Who will look after your
baby?”
Varun said “My mother is staying with us and we intend to engage an ayah
also to look after the baby during the day”
” Are you also as much keen on this adoption as your wife is? I asked
Varun.
“Yes, keener than her and we are in total agreement on this. We have
discussed this endlessly and have come to choose a baby. We want a baby girl in
particular,” he said with a smile.
I was surprised as normally couples prefer boys even in these days when
gender discrimination is frowned upon. They usually seek fair-complexioned boys
with good features. They even try to ferret out information on the biological
parents and their background, if any of the child. As a rule, we never disclose
such information. I asked them to fill up the application form with all the
details and gave them a day to see the children.
As there was a general tendency to pick fair-complexioned and
good-looking babies leaving behind the dusky and ordinary-looking ones, we show
the latter first. Only when the couples are not happy with them and prefer to
return, that we show them some more. Our objective is that all babies should
get willing ‘parents’ and that those not endowed with looks or colour should
not be left out and be offered first
On the appointed day I had chosen four baby girls between 2 and 4 who have not been lucky to be adopted so far.
One of them Sumi (3), was very dark but
endowed with very sharp features. She was a quiet girl not given to much
interaction with other children. There was a forlorn and lost look on her face.
Lakshmi (4), was fairer but was not attractive with a wide bulbous nose and
big ears for her face. She was, however, a pleasant and outgoing girl.
Sweety (2), dusky in colour, had a squint and always cried uncontrollably
on such occasions putting off even those who contemplated to consider her.
Shanthi (2), who was the darkest of the lot. She was
skinny with the ribs showing, and protruding teeth and limped a little looking
awkward when she walked. But she had a smiling twinkle in her eyes. She has
never been in the zone of selection thus far.
I had all of them dressed in good frocks after bath and breakfast and made
them sit in the adjacent room playing with toys.
When Vanita and Varun came, I was not very sanguine of their liking any
of these four. They have been rejected time and again. She had brought plenty
of chocolates. The children looked at me for my approval to accept the toffees.
They have been trained that way. I left the couple with the children and came
to my room. It took more than an hour and they had not come out. Curious
to know what was happening I peeped in through the door. All the children
wreathed in smiles were seen playing with total abandon as if the two strangers
had known to them for a long period.
I thought they were a compassionate twosome and played with the kids just
to give these tiny tots some happiness and warmth denied to them. I had seen so
many come out mechanically and express their unhappiness as we do while
selecting saris.
They came out at last, though reluctantly. and the lady said” I have
taken the snaps of the kids in my mobile without your permission. I hope you
will not mind. We will come tomorrow again to finalise”
I surmised they were being gentle and may not come the next day. I
proffered to say “In case you are not satisfied with this lot, I can show some
more.”
Pat came the reply,” No need, we will choose one amongst these four”
The next day they came early in the morning and said in unison the
name “Shanthi”, when I asked whom, they had selected.
Vanita said “We discussed the whole of last night. I could have taken
all of them but we had to choose one. I was drawn to Shanthi by her eyes. We
will make her a healthy child and after some three years, I will have her teeth
aligned and do something about the limp if possible. Don’t worry. We like the
dusky colour that God has given her. She is such a cute little darling.”
Varun said” My mom was not fair complexioned after all. Beauty and colour
are skin-deep. What mattered is that Shanthi caught our fancy and both of us
zoomed on her.”
He added “Maybe, God willing, we may come again next year and adopt one
more of the other three. Thanks a lot. What wonderful people you are!”
Thoughts of my mom raced in my mind at the successful conclusion.
(This is fiction to be enjoyed for its spirit though it may or may not
strictly conform to the adoption laws.)
Disclaimer at the end of the story is a good idea. I appreciate your stories with positive vibes Nice
ReplyDelete…. chitra
I used to work for an orphanage in Bangkok and I can relate. No one deserves more love and care than any child in an orphanage. God bless all those children who are in such a situation.
ReplyDeleteAlthough the current drill for the adoption of children, as systematised by the Government, is altogether different, this is a very positive story narrating as to how the adoption of an orphan had been dealt by a high minded couple.
ReplyDeleteTouching story!
ReplyDeleteTo bring a child that was once a complete stranger into your home to love and cherish forever is no easy decision. But it didn’t take long for this childless couple who had already been there and felt it all, to see the inner beauty in baby Shanthi. Touched our hearts, KP Sir!
ReplyDeleteIntriguing story.. The child is lucky to have them for parents! Great couple! It is not easy to adopt a child with no resemblance with the parents. Hope the child copes up and both the couple and the child be happy always.
ReplyDeleteUsually I can guess your ending of the story. This time I was wrong. When I read they spent more than an hour with the kids, I thought you are going to end the story with them adopting all 4 kids.
ReplyDeleteSunlight falls uniformly and equally on all subjects. So is, Divine Grace available to all without partiality. Still it gets best reflected in the hearts of a few . Vanitha and Varun are such a blessed couple and their adopting Shanti is the best example of their goodness. KP thro his stories gives us a chance to pond over even after a quick reading .
ReplyDeleteA touching story. A wonderful act of benevolence by Vanitha & Varun. It takes courage and responsibility to adopt for they are God's gift to you and you are their world henceforth. I liked the apt disclaimer.
ReplyDeleteI agree with the above comment about the disclaimer. Adoption laws are very stringent with house visits, vetting, etc. It was a little unusual for the reason that usually Indian adoptive couples do not opt for children with disabilities. But it was a feel-good story. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThe way you presented the story is interesting.
ReplyDeleteI was reminded of our eldest sister 👌
A beautiful story bringing out the society's outlook and the malaise of discrimination on the basis of colour! I know of a lady who comes from an orthodox family and broke all shackles to not wed and adopt two lovely girls who happen to be my students. She is totally devoted to them, quite involved and extremely caring and doting mom donning many roles despite being the VP of a prominent IT firm!
ReplyDeleteIt takes immense courage and single minded devotion to do this.
Real story. There are some parents who have adopted such kids.
ReplyDeleteSo beautifully shared.
The protagonist, adoption centre, children, the prospective parents and interaction and of course the final selection- everything is very well expressed.
A sweet story :)
ReplyDeleteYes, beauty is skin deep, beauty is just for the first look,till you get to know the person, once the character of the person is known, beauty loses its relevance
ReplyDeleteCHINNARAJ
What to say?
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing!
Best wishes and warm regards
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy