Valli hardly 23 was sitting with her beloved grandma Kamalam in the
well-maintained lawn with its various green plants and their colourful flowers
and vibrant leaves. She cherished such moments with her when she shared all her
thoughts and worries with her more freely than with her mom. Grandma was
nearing eighty but was in good health.
“Grandma, Valli began, with her brows furrowing in curiosity, "there
is one intriguing thing that is bothering me. Why does my mom look so different
from the rest of her sisters? My mom is fair with an aquiline nose while all my
aunties are dusky with stub noses. It looks as if my mom doesn’t belong to the
family” asked Valli.
Kamalam smiled and said, “All fingers are not alike, isn’t it?”
“No, that is evasive and not the right answer. I am not convinced,
Grandma”
Smiling again, Kamalam whispered,” I don’t mind letting you into secret
if you promise to keep it to yourself. You are 23 and I see no harm in sharing
it with you at this stage of my life. You are more of a friend than just a
granddaughter.”
Valli snuggled closer and became attentive as Grandma took a deep
breath and started narrating with a sigh.
“When I was your age, I loved a handsome man named Dandapani. We were
going steady and were careless when we decided to get married. When he learnt
that I was pregnant, he developed cold feet and abandoned me. His parents were
very rich and soon found a girl for him from an equally rich background. I was
shocked and trembled about how to break the news to my parents. But to my great
surprise and relief, they were very supportive. I didn’t want to abort the
child as it was delayed. Your mom Sundari was born,” said Kamalam.
Valli's eyes widened in disbelief and said “I can never believe,
Grandma, that you were such a bold and passionate person in your younger days
falling in love with someone and getting into a problem,”
Nodding her head with a poignant expression, she replied “True, I was
foolish. Luckily my dad soon found a very good man in Gunasekar who knew about
my past and was willing to marry me. He regarded Sundari as his own daughter.
No one knew except my parents, Gunasekar, Sundari and now you.”
“Did you or my mom ever contact the other man? asked Valli.
“No, I did not meet him again. I cut him off from my mind forever. But
your mom when she was around 18 or so wanted to meet her bio dad. He was a very
big man in business then. She was rebuffed and ridiculed when she met him at
his office and she came back heartbroken and crying. That was the last we ever
had anything to do with him. Luckily, she had the warmth and total affection of
Gunasekar without a trace of any difference from your aunties”
“OK grandma, the secret is safe with me. This has also answered my
question but I have decided to confront my bio granddad once and give him a bit
of my mind” Valli said
Her face became serious, “Banish such thoughts. He is a heartless and
rough man. He may refuse to meet you or throw you out. Don’t ever do such a
foolish thing. Your mom also may not like it,” warned Kamalam.
Valli was adamant and got an appointment with Dandapani the next day.
Except for grandma, she didn’t tell others.
“Who are you? What is it you wanted to discuss with me in private and
urgently on a matter of importance according to you” asked Dandapani in a surly
tone from his tall richly upholstered red chair.
” Sir, this is somewhat personal. You must relax and be calm” said
Valli.
“Tut, tut, I have no time for small talk. Tell me whatever you wish to
say quickly and get lost” roared Dandapani.
“Cool down, Grandpa. I happen to be Kamalam’s granddaughter and you
happen to be my bio granddad” said Valli coolly in a soft voice.
For a moment he was flabbergasted at the nerve of this young and
bewitchingly beautiful girl. He recovered immediately and said “I neither know
any Kamalam nor would like to know about her. I am a happily married man with
my own family. Your time is up. Leave.”
Valli made no sign of getting up from her chair. She said,” How can you
be so cruel and heartless to disown your daughter Sundari? What was her mistake
in your misadventure with Grandma? I have come here to point out, not at the
behest of anyone, but of my own volition. your insensitiveness,”
He stood up pressing the bell and a messenger entered the room.” Take
this woman out and see she is not allowed to enter the office anymore,” he said
brusquely.
Valli could not suppress her tears at his callous and unfeeling manner
and came out crying to the lounge even as many eyes stared at her. She felt
then an arm entwining her gently and drawing her close to him.
She turned to see her grandpa Gunasekar caressing her hair and saying
in a loving tone “Valli darling, if you had asked me, I would have forbidden
you from coming here. Kamalam told me just in time for me to be here. Why do
you look to strangers when I am there for you as grandpa? Am I not giving you
my total affection?” The tears of anger and disappointment in Valli gave
way to tears of immense joy.
“One minute, Grandpa,” she said as she ran to a spittoon and spat with
all her force.” Let us celebrate this moment in Nirula’s with ice cream. You
are the world's best grandpa. You have opened my eyes to what true love and
affection are. I am proud to be your granddaughter, “even as she hugged her
frail and bent grandpa.
Nice story Sir. It is a hard fact of life. The percentage may vary from country to country and community to community. What to talk of bio-grandfather, people do not even know their bio-father.
ReplyDeleteAffection, love and caring yield respect for anyone. Regards
Raat gayi baat gayi,night passed and event vanished. Gone bygone is not erased so easily. Still there is scope for forget and forgive.It is a question of one's attitude how you view the situation and are ready to reconcile. It is indeed a hard decision,but unshakingly held aloft by Gunasekaran(appropriately named peak of Sat guna snd the other Dandapani meaning wastrel dandam in Tamil) after two generations 'efforts to bring the culprit to soften his attitude and accept guilt.
ReplyDeleteJagadeesan
This is such a thoughtful comment.
DeleteSo true! We can’t force anyone to have a bond with us, even our own biological parent. All that biological connection does not make a mother or a father. Abiding love and care do that. The bonds of a true family are not one of blood, but of joy and respect in each other’s lives!
ReplyDeleteMorality changes with time. Many of the older generation had illicit affair (Chinna Veedu). It is the acceptance and affection of stepfather that is commendable.
ReplyDeleteJanardhan
I remember a quote of Barbara Bush : “ To us, family means putting your arms around each other and being there.” This story proves that quote.
ReplyDelete……. Chitra Solomon
There's something forced in this narrative, am not able to place it clearly, life is indeed strange, love that's demonstrated sometimes feels less, love that was never received, we crave for it more. Regards - Mahesh
ReplyDeleteNice story.ramakrishnan.a.
ReplyDeleteThis scenario is becoming increasingly common! It's fortunate that Sundari's grandparents were progressive for their time, and GrandPa Gunashekar has proven to be a true gentleman.
ReplyDeleteThe author also provides readers with many options to change the story line
Very well written story and this subject is different from the other stories. Thank God her (real grand dad ...this is the one who is the real grand dad Gunasekar)grand dad came to console her...Kamalam is very lucky....Sandhya
ReplyDeleteVery nice story. It is happening in real life also. Thank you sir 🙏
ReplyDeleteA fascinating story in which the hero makes but a short appearance in the very end!
ReplyDeleteHow effortlessly and gracefully such an uncomfortable subject has been broached and dealt with!
ReplyDeleteThat's a lovely story. The actual hero is Gunashekar, loved the way he was there at the time to protect Valli. As said .... Families don’t have to match. You don’t have to look like someone else to love them. It's all about unconditional love and unflinching support.
ReplyDeleteNice story. Valli is lucky enough to get an affectionate grand father like Gunasekar.
ReplyDeleteThe reference to Nirulas brought the story back from the drama of a movie to the normal humdrum of middle class life. Nice
ReplyDeleteMother, father, grandparents are verbs more than they are nouns. You have captured this thought beautifully in this story.
ReplyDeleteMost children and adults have lingering feelings of being unconnected to their roots when they hear about the reality of their birth. This feeling is because of void or emptiness that is felt deep in the core of a sense of not belonging. Searching for birth family members may assist in filling the hole and allowing connections to be made. Whether accepted or not by the biological parent at least they know the roots. This short story brings out the fact rejection hurts but the love shown by the adoptive father / grandfather makes up for this deep hurt. Liked the end … Rama Sampath Kumar
ReplyDeleteBeautiful story :)
ReplyDeleteAcceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences of any misfortune. Dhandapanis will get his share for his cruel action shortly and that is the law of nature.l
ReplyDeleteVery touching story indeed! True relations are made of love and not blood. Atin Biswas
ReplyDeleteVery nice story
ReplyDeleteLoving Grandparents as usual.
ReplyDeleteGrandparents are treasures in Life🥰🙏
Nice story. Grand parents are a step ahead of fathers. Regards. P k Ramachandran
ReplyDeleteIt is contrary to the popular adage that blood is thicker than water! Such a poignant story with a deep moral on relationships.
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ReplyDeleteBest wishes and warm regards
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy
Another good one. It is unconditional love that binds us to people. Many a time the people who care for us may not be related to us in any way. But we understand the language of love.
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